It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Bengie (Joe), our wonderful photographer at KINK, who passed away peacefully in his sleep.
Bengie has been part of the KINK family since our very first event in 2014, capturing countless memories and moments that defined our community. Always cheerful, kind, and full of warmth, Bengie brought light and laughter wherever he went. He never judged or excluded anyone—his gentle nature and genuine affection made everyone around him feel seen, valued, and appreciated.
A gifted and respected photographer, Bengie was well known for his work celebrating male nudity and erotica. Over the years, he photographed thousands of men for profile pictures, model portfolios, and promotional projects, always approaching his craft with artistry and respect. He also helped us create two unforgettable KINK calendars, filling those projects with creativity, laughter, and friendship.
At our last event, Bengie quietly shared that he felt it was time to pass the photography baton, sensing that the moment was right. Our November event was originally planned to celebrate his incredible talent, warmth, and dedication to our fetish community. Now, we will dedicate that event to Bengie’s memory and his lasting contribution to KINK.
In his honour, the event will be photography-free, a small but meaningful tribute to the man who captured our best moments for over a decade.
We have opened a memorial page on our KINK website where you can share your memories, thoughts and comments: https://www.kink-club.co.uk/bengie
Our hearts go out to Bengie’s family and friends during this difficult time.
Rest in peace, Bengie. You will be deeply missed and forever remembered.